The Creepy Guy
M | Posted 12/6/2009

We all have seen him. He walks around supermarkets, shopping malls, health clubs and even joins yoga classes. And you can see from far away what he is up to: chasing down women. His staring looks scan the room for anyone that fits into his scheme. His intentions are obvious to anyone taking a closer look, but he doesnt notice. Thats what I call the creepy guy. And there is plenty of them in this world.

First of all, its not cool to walk around like a hunter on the search for prey. People notice that, and it freaks them out.

Why do many beginner pick-up artists do exactly that? I mean, ask any woman what she thinks about a guy that stares at her all the time she looks away. It really sucks.

Maybe some people have not gotten the idea of eye contact and eye game right. Eye game means sparking interest in someone by the use of your eyes and the looks you give to someone. But it does certainly not mean to stare at people and look at them like they were some kind of prey.

Creepy guys think that simply looking at a woman as often as possible - especially while the woman does not look at them - makes them feel attracted to you. But the opposite is the case. They notice your increased attention, and it makes them feel uncomfortable. Plus, if you look away when her eyes cross yours, you put yourself below hers in status. A guaranteed failure.

Real successful eye game starts with the first impression. When your eyes cross the very first time, you do not look away. Let her break eye contact first. If this takes longer than it might be comfortable for you, you are all set - it is on! Give her a smile, and chances are, she smiles back in a shy manner. This starts attraction and means you are confident, open, and not creepy in any way.

My friend David Wygant covers this and much more in his really unique program Men's Mastery Series. You can download it here!

This blog was posted by M on 12/6/2009 and is filed under Dating.