The Magic Mindset
Markus | Posted 4/13/2009

Last night I was out with a friend of mine, who's a total natural with women. I mean this guy is amazing and he doesn't even know what he's doing that is so attractive to women. His name is Stephen and today I will tell you his story and the amazing mindset you can learn from a total natural.

Let's face it - you've probably learned a lot of techniques and so-called tricks of the trade regarding pickup so far. But for some reason all of this is nice to know but sometimes it doesn't really work. Pickup lines, for example, don't work at all if you don't know how to deliver them properly.

Women can sense what the man really thinks deep down in his mind while he talks. And if you want to be really good you have to work on your mindset first. Everything else will follow automatically.

So lets get back to my friend Stephen. The first thing you notice about him is that he's totally comfortable around women. He doesn't get excited when a total 10 passes by, but he will look her straight in the eye and give her a sly smile.

His mindset is very clear about his goal. He knows from the first minute that he will take her home tonight. He even tells her openly during his flirting that they will end up later in his appartment. Because he is so confident and OK with that, she follows and is comfortable too.

The important thing is that he knows without any doubt that he will take her home this same night. It's not a goal he has, it's already determined in his mind. There is no other choice for him and her this night. If she feels any attraction or not at the beginning is something he does neither care about nor consider worrying about. He talks to her sometimes, not showing any interest at all, but intensifying kino during the night and heating up the conversation.

He acts dominant around her in a natural way, no trying to please her at all but being a gentleman all the time. He knows she wants him and it is a privilege for her to be with him, so he doesn't show any jealousy at all if someone else talks to her.

As the night proceeds he will intensify kino and eventually kiss her in a dark corner. He does not care whether she wants to be kissed or not, he simply supposes she does - or better to say, he knows it.

After making out for several times - and COMPLETELY ignoring her in between - he will finally tell her that it's time to go to his apartment now, again without any doubt whether this will happen.

Do you see the HUGE advantage of having such a mindset? It's about creating your own reality and works all the time. The big secret is being absolutely sure without any doubt that the outcome will be as you desire. It does not mean hoping, it does not mean having it as a goal and working for it, it means KNOWING that things will work that way.

This mindset creates a frame that is so strong she will not dare to question. If you have a strong frame, women will buy into it, no matter what. The point is that you must be sure about your frame, you must believe in it a 100% or better - you have to KNOW it. This means changing your internal belief structure.

Remember that reality creation ALWAYS works. Want a proof? Go out NOW with your current mindset and approach some women. If you don't get the success you wish you had, you successfully prove that your frame is 'Woman don't respond to me with attraction'.

This is also called the Law Of Attraction as mentioned in the book/DVD 'The Secret'. Go get this book, it will blow your mind. It might have a slight esoteric touch but the truth behind is that these laws work!

My friend David Wygant covers this and much more in his program Men's Mastery Series. It is excellent and you can download it here!

This blog was posted by Markus on 4/13/2009 and is filed under Dating.