It's A Numbers Game
Markus D | Posted 1/2/2009
Todays Blog is for all the scientifically-minded among you. And dont ask me why, its normally the logic-oriented in-their-heads guys that dont get laid too often. But thats another story and will not be part of our story today!
Its about life being a numbers game, and I'm sure you've already heard that way too often. But lets take the time to break that down a little bit. Technically spoken, our dating life is nothing else than a funnel. In sales training, where I come from, we talk about a so-called sales funnel. It means that if you put enough leads into your sales process at the one end, eventually there will pop out some nice sales at the other end. What goes on in between is the 'sales process' - selecting, convincing, testing, negotiating. So who can already see the analogy to dating and having success with the other sex?
Many guys keep telling me there are no women in their life and it's so hard to find somebody who's worth spending his life with. Well, then I ask them, do you surround yourself with women? Do you create any opportunities? The answer usually is no. People like to wait for that "perfect moment" or the "perfect person" that will appear at their doorstep. But life just doesn't work that way. If you want to be the one to select, you have to run through the "dating sales funnel". In our case, this means stuffing enough "leads" in at the one end to eventually end up with few but quality partners at the other end. And generating leads every day is not only the duty of each salesperson, its also the way for everybody who wants to be more successful with the other sex. It means putting yourself out there and creating opportunities. It means surrounding yourself with women instead of letting yourself be found. Yes, and it means exposing yourself. If you want to stand on the front line, you have to expose yourself. If you want to stand out among all the other men, you have to be prepared to expose yourself and take some risk and action.
Taking action means to go out and talk to people. It means going out and talking to the maximum number of women you can. It means not freaking out if that "one promising date" didnt work out and she dissed you. It means taking it as a man and go out find a dozen other women to fuck. That's what will lead you to success in dating. My friend David Wygant once said, "Life is a Marathon, not a Sprint" and he's right.
So are you ready to take the challenge? Then go out, talk to some people, and watch all the opportunities roll in!
My friend David Wygant covers this and much more in his program Men's Mastery Series. It is excellent and you can download it here!
This blog was posted by Markus D on 1/2/2009 and is filed under Dating.
