Forget The Comfort Zone!
Marcus | Posted 2/4/2010
So, youre dating this total 10 and you think youve made it? Dont you dare. The moment you feel safe back in your comfort zone and begin to feel secure about your conquest is the point where you should really be alert. Because you are bound to be in trouble.
Unless you fully understand The Game, all the social rules and techniques, as well as relationship dynamics, you should not put yourself to rest. Much less if you have a beautiful woman by your side. Because she makes you feel comfortable. You enjoy being in your safe little place, your comfort zone. And then, as she goes to work next morning, somebody walks up to her and asks her "Hey, I need a female opinion on this. Do you think spells work?", and a minute later she is making out with him. No shit.
When we are learning The Game, we come to a point where our skills make us attract beautiful girls and eventually begin a romantic relationship with them. We feel secure about ourselves and think, finally, after all this stress and effort, I have made it. I have reached the goal. I am dating this total 10 and I am the man.
This is the point where we fall back into AFC behaviour and our old habits. Suddenly, The Game is no longer interesting to us, we dont even look at other women, we stop talking to strangers in the supermarket because we feel SAFE. And we should not. Definitely not.
Think back to the process of dating and getting together. You were witty. You negged her to death and gave her hot-cold emotions. You were playful and cocky. This was interesting. This gave you a mysterious, interesting and sexy aura.
And now, as you are dating her, you want nothing less than security. You put her on a pedestal. You try to read every wish from her lips. You are nice to her and try to make her happy all over. She gets sick of it. You have turned into a wuss again.
So my point is, when you seriously start dating a woman and begin to have some feelings for her, dont forget to maintain the relationship dynamics you created to initiate attraction. Of course, being in a relationship is different than picking up a woman at a bar, but maintain this spirit and interesting aura, or youll lose her attraction sooner than you think. And then she will fall for that stupid guy at the club asking her about her opinion on magic spells.
This blog was posted by Marcus on 2/4/2010 and is filed under Dating, Relationships, Sex.
