Eye Game
Markus | Posted 9/5/2009

Today I want to draw your attention to a part of The Game that is often forgotten and cannot be repeated too many times: The importance of eye contact in seducing women.

From a very young age already, female babies learn to respond to eye contact and facial expressions much more rapidly than males. This is scientifically proven. Later in life, this difference gets even bigger. Men normally dont really focus on the eyes of another person, while women often can tell eye color of all their friends. So if you want to talk 'She-Talk', and want to have direct access to the female mind, learn Eye Game. Conveniently enough, I have compiled the basic rules here for you!

It is a usual reaction of men to look at attractive women briefly, only to break eye contact quickly as soon as the woman's look crosses theirs. Then, a few seconds later, they glance back again. This behaviour is deeply programmed into our brain and demonstrates submissive behaviour. Professional actors use this technique to show the spectator - unconsciously - who is the submissive one in a play and make the scene look more real.

Now, imagine you would not break eye contact and look for a second or so directly into her eyes - just long enough to make you feel slightly uncomfortable at first. Only this small eye gesture can have TREMENDOUS effect on your game and creates immediate attraction.

If you then give her a little smile and she returns it (which she will if she feels attraction) then you know it's on and you can immediately approach her. No opener needed.

The nice thing about this is that it works in any situation - the less obvious the better, so it may be not the best one for bars and clubs. I have found it working particularly well in restaurants, at parties and in all kind of social events that are not typical for women to be hit on by men.

I spoke to a very hot female friend of mine a few weeks ago at a party, when I asked her how she likes the event, she told me 'Well, its fun, but the men are kind of boring here. No one dares to look me in the eye.'. Imagine this! A woman judges the men at a party according to how they maintain eye contact. She knows immediately the guy is a wimp because he looks away submissively.

Yesterday I was sitting with some business partners in an up-market restaurant, talking about some serious issues. On the table next to me a couple sat down - an extremely hot woman, about twenty-five years old, with a guy in his late thirties. I could have assumed they were a couple because they were giggling. But they could also have been relatives, friends, maybe even father and daughter.

I could obviously not approach her directly, but when she once glanced at me I held eye contact just a bit too long for such an occasion. I noticed immediately that its on. From that moment on, even while talking with her acquaintance, she glanced back at me (and I was sitting on her back side!) every five minutes or so, not only maintaining eye contact, but returning smiles I sent her. Incredible. My only issue was being on this table with important business partners so I had no chance in approaching her, but when leaving they got up, and she passed by my table, looked me in the eyes, and said 'good bye' with a smile. Nobody in this restaurant usually does this.

This blog was posted by Markus on 9/5/2009 and is filed under Dating, Sex.