Don't Wait To Be Happy
Markus D | Posted 1/2/2009
Hey folks,
what's your approach to life? Are you waiting for the perfect day to come, the perfect night, the perfect opportunity? Or do you live and enjoy the moment?
I think life is much too short to wait for that magical day to come when we all are going to be happy. If you calculate from your current age to, say, 70 years, you will find out that there's a pretty limited number of remaining days available. If you calculate it to the age where your sexual life usually ends, it's even less. When you do that, you might eventually find out that the perfect moment to start enjoying your life to the max is - right - now!! I know this sounds a little harsh, but it's like that. We all have a time limit, and even with todays technology that extend our lives and Viagra and all the other stuff, it will still not be forever. But the way some guys act and live is exactly like if we would be here forever. When is the best day to approach that hot woman in the bar? It is NOW and not later. Even if you blew it, there's still a dozen other bars in town and probably thousands of other women. Even if you blow it twice a night every saturday and sunday night (which will not happen anymore after some while) you will probably never be able to talk to ALL women available in your town. Maybe you are surprised now, but its a really interesting calculation to make. The odds are on your side, even if you do things totally wrong in the beginning and have no immediate "success", the laws of nature are programmed to have you succeed in the end! Isn't it a wonderful feeling to know that life is on our side on this?
The only thing we have to do to take use of this law is to live in the present moment and take opportunities as they come. And it's not only about talking to women. The whole life is about being happy in the moment. Many people live their life saving for their retirement, working hard, suppressing their desire to have a "golden future". Well, guess what. What if this "golden future" doesn't exist? What if you are not happy when you retire because you have health problems? Then you have saved up all the happiness in your life and you finally never got to enjoy it. But isnt it the most important thing to live a great life and be able to enjoy every day? Try to live more in the moment and enjoy what life brings you. Don't save up all the money, give yourself a treat every now and then. If you want to improve something in your life that will let you live happier in the future, such as getting your dating life handled, do it. Invest in it. You might have to invest a few thousand dollars, but believe me, it's worth it. I've done it too. Basically everybody has to invest into some kind of education to be successful in life. But unless you decide to get that one thing in your life, the one thing you always wanted to achieve, handled, you might not get the chance to do it anymore in your future.
Don't wait to be happy - be happy now and do all the crazy things you wanted to do! It's the only way to grow in life - so go out and enjoy it!
This blog was posted by Markus D on 1/2/2009 and is filed under Dating, Relationships, Sex.
