Are You a Coulda Woulda Shoulda?
Markus | Posted 5/6/2009
Hey, ever heard about the Coulda Woulda Shoulda? Yeah, it sounds like a rare disease, and while it is not so rare indeed, it IS a disease. It's a disease spread out among many people who have great goals in mind but do NOTHING to reach them.
I mean lets be honest. How many times have you not done something you wished to do deep inside, only to regret it afterwards and saying "Oh, I Should have done this" or "I Could have done that" or "If I would have talked to this girl I would have a date with her on the weekend".
This is all pure BS. If you didnt do something you should have done, then live with it. You have allowed an excuse to have more power than yourself and you have surrendered. Face the fact, but you have been weak. And the weak ones don't win. The only people that win on this planet are the strong ones that stick to their goals and ALWAYS do the right thing because they know it deep inside and would NEVER have a cheap excuse have more power than themselves.
Let's see - what are your most popular excuses? Take a look at the most common excuses men put up before talking to women (and then not doing it):
She doesn't seem to be in a mood to talk! - Really, you are a mind reader? You should probably work for the government intelligence agency and work as a spy. No one in this world can guess another person's mind.
She looks like an unfriendly person. - Another "mind reading" excuse. Can you categorize her only by the way she looks? Maybe her thoughts are wandering around and she thinks about work. What the hell! You'll discover that most people are pretty friendly when you talk to them in a friendly way.
I'm having a bad day/It's not the right moment. Oh really. So when would be a right moment? Do you know how to determine the right moment to do things? It's precisely NOW. Don't procrastinate EVER in your life, it is a basic principle of success to do important things first.
I'm in a bad mood. - Get yourself in a good mood and talk to her. It's not that difficult. And you'll see that by getting into social interactions your mood will raise as well.
I could make this list endless long, and you will still be able to make up more excuses. Now that would be an interesting topic for the blog readers - write me some comments on what your favourite excuses are!
If you want to permanently get rid of your excuses I recommend David Wygant's Audio Product "What's Your Excuse" - get it here!
This blog was posted by Markus on 5/6/2009 and is filed under Dating.
This blog has received responses.
Herbie
Posted 5/6/2009
Yeah markus youre right, excuses come to my mind when i talk to women. I guess my favourite excuse is that i have no time at the moment and have something else to do. And if theres nothing else to do i'd find something!
Markus
Posted 5/27/2009
Hey herbie that seems like something I know!
SeducePUA
Posted 6/4/2009
Woulda, Shoulda, and Coulda are known as model verbs. FUCK THE MODEL VERBS!
Mike
Posted 6/10/2009
It's all about that fear of being sent packing, I miss the good old days when all you needed was a club and a cave.
