10 Surefire Rules for More Success With Women
TheFivetonine | Posted 2/8/2009
10 Surefire Rules For More Success With Women
Pickup is a rather complex and wide topic. There is tons of material available on the internet and in the form of books, audio books, DVDs and seminars. You can do bootcamps with so-called "Gurus" and you can take week-long theory courses to give you each and every detail and a step-by-step process on what to do when and how to say it.
If you don't have the time or want to put in the effort to read it all, and you want to begin with the basics to get an overview, what would that be? I have summarized what’s most important and helped me the most in my 10 Surefire Rules for More Success With Women. I put each and every one of them here below. If you do nothing else, learn them, apply them, and you can’t fail.
1) Be Different
It’s a no-brainer: If you want to stand out from the crowd, you better be different than the rest. Dress exceptionally well. Or add in a personal detail that sets you apart from the rest. The key is to catch attention. If you want to stand in the first line, you have to expose yourself.
2) Groom Yourself
You don’t have to be good-looking to attract women. But you have to look good. Meaning that to bring out the best of yourself, you have to take care of your body. Shave and/or trim any unnecessary hair. Shower frequently. Use skincare cosmetics. Get a tan. Use contact lenses. Whiten up your teeth. Always – and I cannot repeat that too often – ALWAYS smell good!
3) Think the Way Women Think
Women are all about details. Men often overlook these details and focus on the big picture, the bottom line. In order to be on the same wavelength as women, you have to act and talk in their world. Remember every name you hear. Pay attention to what she wears, how her hair is, and make comments on these tiny details. Surprise her with little things that are fun and she will melt in front of you!
When you talk, talk in more detail. Tell stories that are rich in detail, that contain all the visual, auditive and emotional details you experienced in that situation. Even if this will sound weird to you, a woman will make sense of it and it makes her feel good.
4) Make Her Feel Sexy
Every woman wants to feel sexy. Comment about all those little things about her. Tell her frequently how sexy she is, maybe secretly whisper it in her ear when you’re in a social setting.
5) Play Hard To Get
Nothing is more attractive than the things you can’t have. It’s like cats playing with a string – the game is interesting as long as the cat can’t really grab the string. When you’re with a woman, never be a 100% available or tell her a 100% of what she wants to know. Make her want to have more every time. Practice “two steps forward, and one step back” and she will get turned on.
6) Sweep Her Off Her Feet
Women are all about those special moments in life. She doesn’t want to be approached by a stranger and immediately know he’s going to pick her up. She wants to meet someone “by coincidence” and have everything develop from there. So create coincidences – and be prepared!
7) Give Her The Gift To Miss You
Often you realize how much you love someone when he or she is not present. Integrate these little moments into your relationship from the beginning. If you are always present, she will lose interest quickly.
8) Be A Leader
Men are supposed to lead a woman all the time. It’s what makes a man attractive. Women want to have a man that can give her a sense of security, so show her in your behavior that you lead. You decide where to go for dinner (even if it’s her favourite place). Don’t ask too much for her opinion on things (but don’t override her all the time!). This is a sensitive topic and it’s important to still be calibrated.
9) Have A Life
You should always have a life beside the woman – so that women are not your only life content. Otherwise you get dependent and insecure. You should always be able to leave her – this will make you feel more confident and this makes you more attractive for her!
10) Know What To Say
If you talk to a woman, listen. And I mean, listen well. If you give your answers based on what she said, you can never say anything wrong. If you constantly think what to say next, you will. So grab all the “free information” she gives you and play the curious child – everybody’s favourite topic is themselves!
My friend David Wygant covers this and much more in his program Men's Mastery Series. It is excellent and you can download it here!
This blog was posted by TheFivetonine on 2/8/2009 and is filed under Dating.
